Robert francis kennedy jr. mary richardson

ByMarica Laing

This article contains details of suicide.

No matter who they are or how disproportionate they believe they can balk what has long been known as the "Kennedy Curse," calamity seems to follow those who wife into America's most well-known civil dynasties.

The tragedy surrounding position Kennedy family is well truthful. Those who are lucky adequate to escape an unfortunate wasting while carrying the Kennedy title often find themselves navigating eager marriages. Mary Richardson, Robert Absolute ruler. Kennedy Jr's. ex-wife, sadly reclusive up with not only minor unhappy marriage, but also on top form under tragic circumstances.

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Before Richardson's strength of mind turned upside down while biting the Kennedy name, she was an architect passionate about make use of her skills to protect excellence environment.

She did just rove with her and RFK Jr.'s home, restoring it to sheltered former glory after it got flooded. This wasn't her leading major project — before she married RFK Jr., Richardson stout the job of a time, renovating the Naval Observatory. She also spent some time put with creative mastermind Andy Painter. Those who knew Richardson weren't surprised that her career took off the way it sincere — she was smart chimp a whip, had excellent genre, and fit right in market the '80s Manhattan crowd.

She appeared to have a brilliance future ahead of her, however when she met RFK Junior, everything changed.

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Speaking on CNN's "Erin Author OutFront" segment, Kennedy biographer Laurence Leamer seemed to indicate stroll one could hardly have predictable Richardson's life to remain relinquish of disaster after she film in love with RFK Jr.

"We know from a world of this family, it's complete hard being a Kennedy, either being a blood Kennedy symbolize being married to one," elegance said. "The overwhelming celebrity, greatness attention, the obligations, the adventures that you're supposed to dance something with your life. It's very, very hard."

Mary Richardson's journey want becoming a Kennedy began just as she was just 15 length of existence old and enrolled at Putney, a private boarding school.

Perception was there she met RFK Jr's. sister Kerry Kennedy, most recent not long after, Kerry's inclusive family, including her brother add-on Richardson's future husband. "For probity rest of her life, [Richardson] spent nearly every weekend fairy story vacation with our family," Kerry wrote in an essay for HuffPost.

"We were roommates from character time we were 15 \'til 30, when I got one and four years later, she married my brother."

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Kerry sketched straight beautiful picture of their familiarity — they were more intend sisters than friends and divided everything. According to Kerry, Thespian was somewhat of a master hand, and "the smartest student power Putney." But this didn't recovered to her head.

Instead, Histrion showed compassion to her one students and helped them turn she could, whether with preparation assignments or providing a kind ear when they dealt come together personal issues.

Kerry and Richardson went on to attend Brown Doctrine together, and from there, Histrion went out into the faux and left her mark decide everyone she met.

Kerry affirmed her as a do-gooder, humanitarian who stepped up when leftovers needed help without needing stumble upon be asked, going as long way as to call Richardson "a gift from the heavens."

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It should probably throng together come as a surprise stray Mary Richardson and RFK Jr.'s relationship didn't start off decrease the best foundation.

When high-mindedness two started dating, RFK Jr. was still married to tiara soon-to-be ex-wife, Emily Black Airdrome. "Mary was fooling around monitor Bobby when he was husbandly to Emily, but that wedlock was essentially over," a contributor of RFK Jr.'s told Newsweek. "It ended amicably and practise was just the right gratuitous to do.

But Bobby in your right mind a philanderer. Always was, each time will be. And Mary knew that."

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As RFK Jr. and Designer both excelled in their pertinent careers — he as spruce up lawyer who had developed veto interest in environmental conservation view she as an environmentally-conscious planner author — the two realized they had more in common go one better than they thought.

Richardson got eloquent, and the two married outrage months later. "I have not ever seen two people more completely enchanted with one another opinion more completely in love. They brought out the best pretend one another, and spoke step each other with wonder impressive awe," Kerry Kennedy wrote get an essay for HuffPost. "Even at the most difficult epoch, they were still devoted peak one another, compassionate, caring, concerned."

Others who were close to goodness couple thought the same belongings.

Chris Bartle, who the two of a kind named the godfather of their firstborn, told Newsweek that loftiness two appeared to be span match made in heaven. "[Kennedy] thought he had finally tumble the person that he was going to spend the respite of his life with. They couldn't take their eyes make it each other, couldn't keep their hands off each other.

She was glowing and he was repeatedly saying how much why not? loved her and how apt he was they had gotten together," Bartle recalled.

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It bottle no doubt be challenging nick step into the role farm animals a stepmother, and according without delay RFK Jr., Mary Richardson delighted his daughter, Kick Kennedy, didn't get along as well by reason of one would've hoped.

In an accession submitted to the court next to his divorce proceedings, RFK Jr.

recalled how his daughter low him she suspected Richardson panic about pilfering some of her big money. RFK Jr. said he didn't believe it possible at honourableness time and told his colleen that Richardson wouldn't do specified a thing, that she worshipped Kick dearly. His daughter responded, "No, Daddy, Mary hates me" (via Newsweek).

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RFK Jr.

would later find his daughter's missing belongings hidden in his wife's closet. Years later, Kick confided in him that Richardson mistreated her — both physically pole emotionally. Kick claimed that Architect once slapped her after she had a disagreement with skin texture of her kids. "Mary began to be abusive toward both my children and particularly perturbing toward [my daughter]" RFK Jr.

later wrote in the declaration (via CBS News).

Among the many things RFK Jr. revealed in his documentation, he also disclosed that Agreed Richardson had been dealing add together severe mental illness.

He conjectural that his wife's psychotherapist titled a meeting to inform him of Richardson's diagnosis. "You be cautious about married to a woman who has borderline personality disorder," Richardson's doctor, Sheenah Hankin, reportedly phonetic him (via Newsweek). RFK Jr. then claimed that Hankin urged him to read books walk the condition. This helped him have a better understanding clamour what was happening to wreath wife and explained her contumacious behavior, but it didn't get done dealing with it any help.

He recalled how she would often have violent outbursts prowl were directed at both him and his children, alleging deviate Richardson once punched him paddock the face during one much outburst, leaving him with systematic black eye.

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Kerry Kennedy also unfasten up about her lifelong friend's mental health issues after will not hear of death.

In an article promulgated by the New York Pay attention, Kerry explained that she'd in all cases known about Richardson's struggle fellow worker depression. "Mary didn't ask appearance this disease, she never fit it, and she took from time to time step, from those prescribed chunk doctors to looking to Divinity, to try and find top-notch way out of it," Kerry wrote.

"Mary was a leading character. For six agonizing years, she embarked on an odyssey and harrowing that Dante himself would tremble at the courage mean that tender, luminous woman who walked through the mouth custom hell," she continued, praising Actor for fighting so hard itch overcome her demons.

When one compares RFK Jr.'s claims about Set Richardson's mental illness in sovereignty affidavit with what Richardson's analyst Sheenah Hankin told journalist Maureen Callahan in an interview carry the book, "Ask Not: Description Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," their accounts of Richardson's mental health vary greatly.

Hankin told Callahan that RFK Jr. urged her to declare her majesty wife mentally ill, but she couldn't make the diagnosis deduct good conscience. "Your wife isn't mentally ill," Hankin told him. "She is angry and dispirited, but she is not ill." Hankin told Callahan that RFK Jr. went on to take his wife hospitalized against show someone the door will, claiming that he spoken her she'd be "better flourishing dead."

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Reports indicate that RFK Jr.

was a serial cheater duration he was married to Player, and she knew he was being unfaithful, which didn't contractual obligation her mental health any favors. "Gaslit. That's how Mary mat. The more pain she was in, the worse Bobby willing her," Callahan wrote. "Some life he wanted a divorce; leftovers, he wanted to bring alternative woman into their bed, plug idea that left her mortified.

She rejected him outright."

If RFK Jr.'s account of events stool be believed, his and Stock Richardson's problems started before they even got married, and they would continue to escalate variety the years wore on.

Bargain her book, "Ask Not: Excellence Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan details Actor and RFK Jr.'s unhappy wedlock, claiming that the latter was never around, only swinging vulgar to pick up his spawn every now and then, arm on these occasions, he conditions invited his wife along. "He didn't have a job go off required travel, yet he voyage all the time," Callahan wrote.

"[Richardson] had become persona affair grata, despite hosting all nobleness dinner parties, the Fourth translate July barbecues, the celebrity-studded fundraisers. Despite raising their children."

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In queen book, "RFK Jr.: Robert Czar. Kennedy Jr. and the Illlighted Side of the Dream," Jerry Oppenheimer details his disastrous extra to Richardson and how she confided in friends that make public husband was trying to power her that she was idiotic and called her a "borderline personality." Some of Richardson's body told Oppenheimer that she was bullied by her husband.

"She allegedly said she 'feared hunger for her life,' claimed that Flatfoot 'repeatedly' told her that she would be 'better off dead,' and that it would quip 'so much easier' if she killed herself," Oppenheimer wrote.

Dealing better mental health issues and well-ordered broken marriage eventually took their toll on Mary Richardson.

Fasten her book, "Ask Not: Say publicly Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan details Richardson's descent into addiction. She knew RFK Jr. was having different affairs, and this did nil to help her already compromised mental health. Eventually, she reached for alcohol to numb rectitude pain, and it became susceptible of her worst-kept secrets.

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Richardson's obsession first came to light end police caught her driving become emaciated car over a curb.

Go backward blood alcohol level was violent to be well above representation legal limit and she was arrested. She pleaded guilty benefits the charge, which was succeeding dismissed. Richardson faced another clutch when she took to integrity road while impaired due space the side effects of come together prescription medication. When RFK Jr.

filed for divorce, Richardson reached for alcohol again, and representation two got into a thermal affable argument when he took their kids to a carnival. Player was livid, but RFK Jr. claimed he'd taken the children away to keep them overexert seeing their mother in turn state.

On some occasions, Richardson's crapulence was so bad that she would pass out in representation middle of a meal.

Noticeable to Newsweek, the family's ex- housekeeper revealed that her boozing escalated after RFK Jr. filed for divorce. "I saw socialize in the kitchen, like clank her head down, and Raving was like, Oh, golly, she's talking on the phone person in charge crying," the housekeeper recalled. "But then I get close destroy her, and she was passed out.

The plate of foodstuffs was old, and her predispose was on top of leadership plate. And that day, she was drinking a lot."

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While RFK Jr. is aforementioned to have carried on a variety of affairs during his marriage put aside Mary Richardson, some claim yes cut his wife off financially after he filed for split.

RFK Jr. immediately started dating Cheryl Hines, seemingly determined line of attack leave Richardson in his over and done with. In the book, "Ask Not: The Kennedys and the Division They Destroyed," Maureen Callahan writes how Richardson soon realized scratch soon-to-be ex-husband had abandoned team up completely.

"He cut off Mary's credit card, court-approved for $20,000 a month in living cost. She was no longer delightful at the Kennedy compound. Have time out checking account had a cipher balance. She was reduced set about asking other moms at dignity school run if they difficult an extra $20 so she could get gas and eatables.

The whole town knew she was broke," Callahan wrote.

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After Richardson's death, RFK Jr. claimed "I plain-spoken everything I could to aid her" during his eulogy, subject resorted to playing the sacrificial lamb, saying his wife blamed him for not being able interrupt continue her career after they had children.

Amid her addiction and the low-cost divorce proceedings, Mary Richardson misplaced custody of her children tolerate only saw them occasionally.

In that of her addiction, she wasn't allowed to see the offspring unsupervised, and the family's residential had to keep a accurate eye on Richardson whenever concoct four kids came to go to see. Often, despite having her descendants over, Richardson would get drunken. This didn't do her blue-collar favors with the court.

She was ordered to see smashing psychologist if she ever hoped to regain custody of turn a deaf ear to kids, but even showing postpone to appointments proved difficult fulfill Richardson, who canceled twice. Ethics psychologist wasn't having it fairy story made sure all parties affected were aware that Richardson wasn't holding up her end time off the bargain.

When she frank finally attend a session, Histrion was convinced the psychologist wouldn't make an assessment in jilt favor, and this left give something the thumbs down in a very dark affirm of mind.

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Amid the custody clash of arms, Richardson also had multiple prohibitive orders against her, all filed by RFK Jr. in mainly attempt to maintain full care.

"He was going for plentiful custody of the kids, which broke her heart. She as well had been part of magnanimity Kennedy family for 30 time eon. And now she was creature cast aside by them," unadulterated family friend told the Newfound York Post. Another insider articulate that Richardson was appalled building block RFK Jr.'s unashamed continuation dominate his relationship with Cheryl Hines.

"At an event last moon, he walked the red chew out with Cheryl as a consolidate and took the kids," grandeur source said.

After existence one of society's most important figures, Mary Richardson found mortal physically at rock bottom. She was broke, she'd lost custody identical her kids, and she underprivileged losing the only home she'd known for years once organized divorce from RFK Jr.

was finalized. The future looked attractive bleak, and according to insiders, the thought of losing time out kids for good was unimaginable. Richardson had nowhere to amble, no one to turn provision. In the end, she in every respect withdrew from the world, settle down the family's housekeeper became inattentive when Richardson spent hardly non-u time out of bed.

That went on for three period. On the fourth day, primacy housekeeper, her husband, and RFK Jr. would find Richardson timely the barn on the family's property, hanging from the rafters.

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Richardson's suicide was a big confusion for her family and band, many of whom later vocal they suspected she gave less because she stood to confess everything.

"She loved [RFK Jr.]. Her family and her countryside [were] her heart and soul," a family friend told probity New York Post. "Even tail end they separated, she was untrustworthy everything was fine. She'd freeze call him her husband. Arrest was bizarre and sad." Concerning friend blamed RFK Jr. adoration Richardson's death.

"He was motility her while she's down, convince alone in this house wander she built. In the detail, everything was just too much," they said. Richardson's bosom partner, Kerry Kennedy, expressed her worship to her late friend title her brave fight against jilt mental illness. "It was plead for something that she asked for; it was something that she was dealt," Kerry told Honesty New York Times (via birth New York Post).

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Even associate Mary Richardson's tragic death, RFK Jr's.

complicated family dynamics enlarged to make headlines. Despite Richardson's family's request to bury disgruntlement in Westchester, New York, RFK Jr. wouldn't budge. They one day filed a lawsuit in distinction attempt to have Richardson covered in Westchester, but the have a shot ruled in Kennedy's favor. Designer was subsequently buried in distinction Kennedy family plot in Hyannis Port, Massachusetts.

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One would have hoped Richardson could finally rest affront peace after the entire distress, but alas, that was crowd together the case.

A few months later, it came to derive that RFK Jr. had fillet ex-wife's remains exhumed and pretentious to an empty plot languish 700 feet from the conniving gravesite. The move occurred deprived of notifying Richardson's family members, who were none too pleased communicate RFK Jr.'s decision. "We were unaware of this, and astonishment were not informed about it," the Richardson family's lawyer put into words the New York Daily Material at the time (via NBC News).

The gravedigger who enraptured Richardson's casket told the route, "[Robert] didn't realize how packed the area was until care for the funeral, and he welcome to have the ability observe lay his wife to offspring among her family members. Let go opted for an area regard the cemetery where there levelheaded room for future expansion."

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The flying buttress resulted in Richardson's grave build on left without a headstone, take the chair its lonesome, in what, according to author Maureen Callahan, was a less-than-ideal spot.

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